If you are struggling to identify your strengths, why not take the VIA survey?
1. Look at the qualities in the box, discuss with your partner and rank these in the order of importance, with No. 1 being the most important quality to you.
2. Select the quality you ranked No. 1 to you and write a short statement that explains the quality and why it is important to you. Provide an example of how you display it in everyday life. Your partner will also do this in their box.
Patient I don’t get annoyed because i have to wait.
Considerate I think about the needs of others.
Good at Listening I listen carefully and sympathetically to others.
Fair I treat all people the same way.
Open-Minded I listen carefully to new ideas even if i disagree.
Reliable My friends and family can count on me.
Modest I don’t boast or show off to others.
Appreciative I express my gratitude when good things happen.